Dating younger women steele
I am merely sharing an insight that changed my life and ultimately improved my relationships with men, with the hope that it may help improve yours as well.My sense is that the more we understand other people, the better off we will all be. Round and perky, these breasts did not belong to someone who had been through two pregnancies and an attempted breastfeeding. And my amazing boyfriend has never given me any reason to question his loyalty or devotion.
It has been popularized by all kinds of media, including iconic books and movies.
And they reveal how utterly oblivious women are to men’s reality. I’d heard that expression many times over the years. I thought it meant that men like to date/have sex with women who are attractive.
I did not know that “men are visual” is a way of saying that men are constantly visually drawn to look at women’s bodies all the time — a co-worker wearing a slim-fitting pencil skirt, a woman at the coffee shop whose top button is unbuttoned, a friend at the gym wearing leggings that show off her curves.
A leg man will still feel compelled to look at waists and breasts. It isn’t even live women — one man described feeling compelled to look up a mannequin’s dress!
Moreover, it is something they simply can’t turn off.
I thought those visual cues might be accompanied by desire, which apparently they are, but I did not realize those feelings are often fleeting, much the way I might covet a piece of chocolate cake when walking past a bakery window, then forget about it hours later. This was especially hard for me to understand, as my feelings of desire are nearly always connected to romance. It’s tempting for those of us with two XX chromosomes to dismiss Gross and Feldhahn’s descriptions as religious proselytizing in an attempt to curb sexual expression, because the authors are Christian and write for a Christian audience.